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Getting the Most Out of Your Therapy Sessions: What Happens BETWEEN Appointments Matters
Therapy is powerful—but the real magic doesn’t only happen in the therapy room. Insight, healing, and change often unfold in the quiet moments between sessions: when you notice a pattern in real time, when a feeling catches you off guard, or when you pause long enough to reflect instead of react. Therapy works best when it becomes part of your everyday life, not just a once-a-week conversation. So how do you get the most out of your therapy sessions? 1. Come in With Awareness
Debra Anson
Dec 31, 2025


Could I Have a Problem with Alcohol? What to Look For and How to Get Help
Many people use alcohol to relax, celebrate, or cope with stress — and for some, it remains a casual part of life. But for others, drinking can gradually become a source of concern rather than comfort. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Do I have a problem with alcohol?” you’re not alone. Asking this question is an important and courageous first step toward awareness and healing. When Drinking Becomes a Concern Alcohol affects everyone differently. What begins as occa
Debra Anson
Nov 9, 2025


Undertstanding Trauma and Its Lasting Effects
Trauma is not just something that happens to us — it’s something that can live within us, shaping the way we think, feel, and respond long after the event has passed. Whether the cause is a single shocking experience, years of stress, or early childhood adversity, trauma leaves an imprint on both the mind and the body . When we experience trauma, the brain’s alarm system goes into overdrive. The amygdala — responsible for detecting danger — becomes hypersensitive, while the p
Debra Anson
Nov 9, 2025


Understanding Anxiety and Learning to Cope
Anxiety is a normal part of being human. It’s our body’s way of alerting us to potential danger or stress — a built-in alarm system that sometimes gets a little too sensitive. When anxiety becomes overwhelming or constant, it can interfere with sleep, concentration, relationships, and overall well-being. The good news is that anxiety can be managed, and there are many effective coping skills that can help you feel calmer, more grounded, and in control. What Anxiety Feels Like
Debra Anson
Oct 25, 2025


The Power of Box Breathing: How This Simple Technique Calms the Mind and Strengthens Focus
In our fast-paced world, stress can creep in before we even realize it. From constant notifications to daily responsibilities, our nervous systems are often in overdrive. Fortunately, one of the most powerful tools for managing stress and improving focus is always available—your breath. Among the many breathing techniques practiced today, box breathing stands out for its simplicity and effectiveness. This method has been used for centuries in meditation and yoga traditions,
Debra Anson
Oct 14, 2025


The Benefits of Virtual Mental Health Therapy: Healing from the Comfort of Home
In our fast-moving, always-connected world, taking care of your mental health is more important than ever. Yet finding the time to meet...
Debra Anson
Oct 9, 2025


What You Eat Affects How You Feel: The Link Between Diet and Mental Health
When we think about mental health, we often focus on therapy, medications, or stress management—but nutrition is increasingly recognized...
Debra Anson
Oct 2, 2025


Seasons of Life: Embracing Change and Growth
“For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a...
Debra Anson
Sep 30, 2025


Building Healthy Attachment: Feeling Safe in Relationships
As human beings, we are wired for connection. From the moment we are born, our relationships shape how we see ourselves and how safe we...
Debra Anson
Aug 19, 2025


Navigating Grief with Compassion and Care
Grief is a universal human experience—inevitable, painful, and deeply personal. Whether it's the loss of a loved one, a pet, a...
Debra Anson
Jun 20, 2025


Let's Talk Mental Health: Common Conditions
Let’s face it—life can get heavy sometimes. We all deal with stress, sadness, and worry. But for many people, these feelings go deeper...
Debra Anson
Apr 11, 2025


The Power of Taking a Break: How to Reduce Stress and Recharge
In today’s fast-paced world, stress has become a common part of daily life. Whether it’s work, personal responsibilities, or simply the...
Debra Anson
Mar 22, 2025


The Window of Tolerance in Mood- Navigating Emotional Highs and Lows for Better Mental Health
Have you ever felt so overwhelmed that your emotions seemed out of control? Or so numb that it felt impossible to engage with the world...
Debra Anson
Mar 15, 2025


Surprising Things a Mental Health Therapist Can Help With
When people think of therapy, they often associate it with anxiety, depression, or trauma. But did you know that mental health therapists...
Debra Anson
Mar 9, 2025


Sleep Hygiene: The Key to Better Mental Health
Good sleep is the foundation of mental well-being. Poor sleep can lead to increased stress, anxiety, and difficulty concentrating, while...
Debra Anson
Mar 9, 2025


Taming Your Inner Critic with Self-Kindness
We all have an inner voice that questions, critiques, and sometimes even discourages us. While it's natural to reflect on our choices, an...
Debra Anson
Mar 4, 2025


HALT: A Simple Self-Check for Better Well-Being
Ever find yourself snapping at someone, making impulsive decisions, or feeling completely drained? Sometimes, our emotions get the best...
Debra Anson
Mar 3, 2025


Mastering Emotional Regulation- Finding Inner Peace
Emotions are powerful. They can uplift us to the highest peaks of joy or plunge us into the depths of despair. Yet, our emotions don’t...
Debra Anson
Feb 16, 2025


Talking & Listening with Love: Communication Tips for Couples
Good communication is the heart of a strong relationship. When we feel heard and understood, it brings us closer to our partner. But...
Debra Anson
Feb 5, 2025


Planting the Seed: Beginning Your Journey with Mental Health Therapy
Starting therapy for mental health can feel like planting a seed in your life. It's an act of care, commitment, and hope—though you may...
Debra Anson
Jan 25, 2025
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